Hey there everyone! Hope you are all having a great week and a great day. Okay, so today's blog is going to be a post all about (drum roll please) my birthday! I am now 31 and that is so crazy for me! I love the freedom that I have discovered now starting the journey in my 30s. I really have stopped caring what people think and now care more about how I feel and how I want to live and the things that I want to do. I have really discovered my confidence and found out the kind of person that I really am at my core. I am a care giver because I love to take care of the people most important to me and my love language (which I have only come to realize this year) is acts of service. That is my love language and it took me a long time to find it and really find out who I am as well. Even with that said I am still always finding out more about who I am and who I want to be and what I want for my life and my family and those around me.
My birthday is in May and I know this is a little late but I had so much happen during May that I couldn't find the right time to sit down and write and I had a bit of laziness going on too. 😂 I had a great time on my birthday even though we had to stay in quarantine. I still had a great bday. I went to pick up creole food and had cake and got calls and messages from everyone. I also got some presents from my husband and sister and family. Even though this is how I had to spend my bday it was still very nice. I have only really been celebrating my bday for about 6 years now since when I was single I never really cared cause I was always at work for my bday. I guess that brings me to something that I want to work on this year and that is not saying that things aren't important to me cause no ever cared. I still have work to do on myself and my confidence. I have to work on giving myself some room and love too because I tend to forget about me and just focus on everything else and everyone else.
How do I see things at 31 and how do I see my next year of life well that is a very good set of questions. I think that I see myself getting my business off the ground and putting out the book that I am writing and finally getting pregnant. I also see us getting out of debt and maybe buying a house or start saving more to buy a house. I see my little family traveling more and maybe one day living abroad for time. I am sure what the future will bring but I do know that I will be working hard to accomplish all the things that I said above. I feel so much more free to be myself and just live life the way that I choose and not according to someone else's idea of how I should live. I live for my little family and myself and all I can pray is that this next year can bring peace and acceptance and love to all those around me and around the world! ❤️